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Victory Thinking: What to Tell Your Child to Think About in Order to Win

The game is on the line and your child can either be the first star or the scapegoat. You want to help your child perform their best and you’ve done everything in your power to provide the best possible chances of success. One area you may have not put much thought in is investing is the area of mental skills training for your kids. You’ve heard of the notion that playing sports is 90% or more mental but what is sports psychology anyway?

Victory Thinking: What to Tell Your Child to Think About in Order to Win

Sports psychology involves the instruction and training of psychological skills for performance enhancement. It involves helping an athlete get into a state of flow or peak performance. But how can we get there? When the pressure is on, what exactly should one be thinking about? Can victory be enhanced with the thoughts of winning? If so, what are the best key-words to use?

When you strive to achieve a goal, we are often taught to think about it long and hard and it will eventually happen. Perhaps you’ve heard about the self-fulfilling prophecy whereby the thoughts that you think about lead to the occurrence of the event. The rationale is that the belief causes the behavior. In sports psychology however, when it comes down to winning, the idea is to think about what it takes to win rather than the actual victory itself. In a nutshell, think process vs. outcome. One needs to think about being “in the moment” being “right here right now” or other cues such as “focus”, “calm” or “persistence”. Sports psychology experts generally agree on core values in success as belief, commitment, mental toughness and confidence. Other thoughts that lead to victory can be to think about the enjoyment of the sport, being resilient or to have a second or third effort.

When thinking of positive sports psychology words fun is a good word. Enjoyment is better. Personal satisfaction goes even further in creating the psychological characteristics of peak performance. Take a look at this clip of campers saying to themselves I can (see it) or see it with an instructor (see it). As athletes move up in competitive settings, thinking of more meaningful, creative and sophisticated words can help their performance so that they can succeed “in the clutch” and hopefully they’ll recognize your wise words of support.

Lior Doron is the academy director of the tennis and sports psychology academy (TSPA) which specializes in positive reinforcement and trains campers on and off the court. More information on the camp click here, visit the academy’s website www.tspa.ca or by calling 514-886-9929, info@tspa.ca. He also owns Flow in Sports which helps athletes train mentally for peak performance. For more information, please contact him directly at info@flowinsports.com, toll free at 1877-778-FLOW, 514-963-FLOW (3569) or visit www.flowinsports.com.

Real Sociedad keeper learns to always be aware of who’s behind him

Real Sociedad keeper learns to always be aware of who’s behind him

Tuesday was not a good day for Real Sociedad goalkeeper Enaut Zubikarai. Squandering a 2-0 advantage from the first leg of their Copa del Rey round of 16 tie against Mallorca by allowing six goals in the first hour of the second leg is enough to ruin any keeper’s day, but Mallorca’s fourth goal of the day — the one that gave them an aggregate lead they would not give back — was one that could spark a lifetime of paranoia for Zubikarai.

Washington Capitals Schedule – Back for another Round of Dominating Hockey

The Washington Capitals had a spectacular season in the NHL in 2010-11, but lacked the oomph to go all the way to the Stanley Cup Finals. The Caps took the Eastern Conference title before bowing to the Tampa Bay Lightning in the playoffs, but they’re back with a vengeance in 2011-12. The Capitals are looking to snag some big wins and head back to the playoffs this year, and the team has some big matchups on the schedule throughout the season. Here are some of the top matchups on the Washington Capitals Schedule that will bring dedicated fans in flocks to the arena for some hard-hitting hockey action.
Jan. 13, Lightning at Capitals. The Tampa Bay Lightning squashed the Capitals’ dreams of a Stanley Cup title last season in an embarrassing 0-4 run in the Conference semifinals. The Caps have been thinking about that game all offseason, and will most certainly bring the heat when the division rivals face off during this Jan. 13 melee.
Jan. 20, Capitals at Hurricanes. The Caps will take on another division rival on Jan. 20, when they travel to Raleigh to face the Carolina Hurricanes on the road. The Hurricanes have been consistent so far this season, and could pose as a threat to the Caps as the regular season heads toward a close.
Jan. 24, Bruins at Capitals. The reigning Stanley Cup champions will head to Washington to take on the Caps on Jan. 24, and these Eastern Conference rivals will pack the house at the Verizon Center for this game. The Bruins topped the conference in 2011, but will it happen again in 2011-12? Not if the Caps can help it!
Feb. 13, Sharks at Capitals. The San Jose Sharks are another dominant team from last season that has struggled early on in 2011 but will have plenty of time to right their ship this season. Will they be able to recover toward the end of the year? Check it out when the Sharks head to Washington in mid-February.

Here are some of the top matchups on the Washington Capitals Schedule that will bring dedicated fans in flocks to the arena for some hard-hitting hockey action.

What is Right with the Montreal Canadiens

 What is Right With the Montreal Canadiens

 Focus on the Positives to Achieve Better Performances                                                                                                                                                             Coach Doron B.A., D.S.A., M.Sc.

December 24, 2011

Anyone living in the city of Montreal right now knows that the Montreal Canadiens are not performing up to their potential. In fact, the organization is in the news for all the wrong reasons. Rather than focusing on what is wrong with the Montreal Canadiens, we should focus on what is right!

 

To get an immediate uplift, I highly recommend you check out Anakid Slayd’s  ”stand up” video which aims to unite the city in support of your franchise.

If we can learn from successful scholars and authors such as Steven Covey, we should « begin with the end in mind ». We all want the 25th Stanly Cup to be hoisted above the captain’s head and seeing it transported on St-Catherine Street. We should ask the right questions such as how can we do everything possible to improve their chances? Everyone has a role:

Fan’s Role:

·          Rather, then booing poor performances, unconditionally support your team. Rain or shine let them hear it, see it and feel it.

·          Sing the “Ole Ole” every home game even when the team is losing. What a great feeling it is to be happy when things are not going well. One would be amazed how fast things can turn around with this perspective.

·          After a goal scored upon the Habs, immediately start chanting « Go Habs Go ». Athletes are more prone to success with support vs. conditional acceptance especially in a city where the athletes are backed up only when they win. Wouldn’t it be great to focus on what can we do to reboud back after an unsuccessful event? Why not right here, right now?

 

How do you think the athletes feel with 21273 bosses criticizing their work? Do you think this spurs their brains neurons to illicit creative plays of excellence? Let me tell you from my experience working as a sports psychology coach, this tends to alienate even the best players and thereafter the athlete loses that spark to create, recreate and maintain their motivation – even if they are supposed to be professionals.

Media’s Role:

·          The media can accentuate the positives of each games (even when a team loses) to create a path of success vs. what is going wrong. No doubt, I am not in denial. Players need to step up especially those whose primarily roles is to put the puck across the goal line.

·          Print out fresh new articles on the players so that the fans can really get to know them.

·          Highlight the many gestures the team does for the less fortunate.

·          Provide management with other ideas on how their team and brand can help. Look on the bright side and shift your lens.

·         Having read focusing on the positives in the Montreal Gazette, what about similar uplifting feel good stories every week about the players.

·          Stop focusing on the coach’s language skills (or lack-of) and allow him to work in an environment that embraces his skills and knowledge. He certainly earned it. It is always easy to second guess and play arm chair quarterback. The term is called the knew it all along effect.  For now, let things unfold and simply describe the events without passing judgement.

Management’s Role

·          Step up efforts for scouting the best players around the world. Stop reminiscing about past performances and take the steps necessary so that you can help the team now and for years to come.

·          Increase the value of the psychological factors that a player can bring on the ice. Remember a player with less talent but who has superior mental skills is far better off for the club. Evaluate they psychological attributes of commitment, team play, mental toughness and ensure the player is dedicated to the city. Team workshops (read more) that focus precisely in these areas can serve as valuable building blocks for success.  This approach has certainly helped young kids build their mental skills while playing sports (read more).

·          The team is searching for its identify with the recent changes in coaching staff and players. This is a similar team that was one goal away from beating the Stanley Cup champions Bruins in the deciding game 7 in 2011. Are you making a change for the sake of change or does the change have a clear purpose?

Player’s Role

·          Focus on bringing back their game to the basics as the cliché goes “keeping it simple”. Home games don’t need to be so entertaining. Local fans also enjoy those dirty goals.

·          Enjoy playing in the best National Hockey League city as this is truly a once in a lifetime experience. Focus on the process, savour it and be in the moment.  The results will follow shortly.

·          Trust your skills. You’ve done your moves thousands of times in practice and in your mind. Allow yourself the freedom to express yourself even if this means you might make a mistake.

In summary, let us build on one’s strengths and thereafter the gaps of weakness will rectify itself because one will be in a better position with more confidence, enhanced self-talk (see video),  belief in onself and buying into the team concept. Everyone pushing in the same direction, thinking they can (see video) creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. It is amazing what we can do if we just focus on the positives. What do you see when you first see this picture? Did you see an old lady? Did you see a younger lady? It depends on what you focus on. The Canadiens organization is one of the most sought out franchises in professional sports. The CH serves as a model for others who only dream of having such a loyal fan base and deep rooted commitment to the community. Get out there and focus on your role while supporting your bleu – blanc rouge!

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December 16, 2011

Dear Friend,

I wanted to take a few moments to wish you and your family a wonderful holiday season. Wishing you only the best of the best!

I also wanted to share with you three new developments and holiday specials that are in effect until January 15, 2012.

1. New Flow in Sports Website. Better Look and Feel

First, I am pleased to unveil my redesigned website. You can browse all the list of services highlighted in the orange menu. Any purchase and you get 50 coupons! This includes personal tutoring or my new e-learning courses covering a variety of mental skills such as optimism for kids or adults, motivation, focus, mental imagery, the 2010/2011 referee exam and much more. As my new motto suggests, your desire to improve your game with mental skills training is “smart thinking”. Without further delay…

Show me the new Flow in Sports website! (comments welcome)

2. Get Sports Psychology Services in School for $0 + 50% off TSPA (Tennis and Sports Psychology) Camp for the Entire School + 100 coupons!

Second, by having your school offer leading edge sports psychology services (tell me more), I am pleased to share a new grant from the provincial government that will cost your school $0. A team can benefit from mental skills training off the court to boost performance on the court. Once the Flow in Sports for Teams Gold Package is purchased the entire school will get 50% off the regular price of our world famous TSPA tennis camp! You can decide by June 2012 which week(s) the camper will participate. If you are the primary reason creating this worthwhile partnership, you get 100 coupons! Just forward this email to the school administrator (more info) and ask him or her to (download the bursary form).

Check out one of my favorite mental imagery clip that will convince you of its power

See top 10 videos and pictures from TSPA summer camp 2011.

3. New Ad: This Can Be You!

Finally, I wanted to show you my latest promotional ad regarding my services called “This Could be You!”

Any questions,comments or suggestions, feel free to contact me.

With Much Resilience,

Coach Doron

Sports Psychology Coach

Flow in Sports – Smart Thinking

514-963-FLOW (3569)

www.flowinsports.com

le 15 décembre 2011

Cher Ami,

Je saisis cette opportunité pour vous souhaiter à tous de joyeuses fêtes avec vos proches!

Je voudras aussi partager avec vous trois bonnes nouvelles ainsi que et des spéciaux en vigueur jusq’au 15 janvier 2012.

1. Nouveau Site Web:Meilleur Apparence

Un nouveau site amélioré. Vous pouvez voir les services que j’offre dans les cases oranges. Pour tout achat, recevez 50 coupons; ceci inclut des leçons de soutien scolaire et des cours en ligne d’optimisme pour enfants et adultes, motivation, focus, imagerie mentale ainsi qu’un examen de hockey sur glace pour les arbitres.

À la découverte du nouveau site à l’aise en sport!

Vos commentaires sont les bienvenus!

2. Service en Psychologie du Sport dans Votre École Pour 0$ et 50% de Rabais Pour le Camp ATPS (Académie de Tennis et de Psychologie du Sport) Pour Toute L’école et 100 Coupons!

Lorsque votre école offre des services en psychologie du sport (en savoir plus), j’ai le plaisir de vous annoncer que le gouvernement provincial offre une nouvelle bourse qui ne coûtera rien à votre école. Une équipe peut bénéficier d’entraînements mentaux en dehors du terrain alors que sa performance peut s’améliorer sur le terrain. Dès que vous achetez un forfait d’équipe “or”, l’école bénéficie de 50% de rabais sur le prix régulier de notre camp d’été ATPS. Vous avez le choix de vous inscrire aux semaines de camp de votre choix jusqu’en juin 2012. Si, grâce à vous, un partenaria se forme entre à l’aise en sport et votre école, vous obtiendrez 100 coupons! En shouaitant que ce couriel soit transmis au responsable de l’école (en savoir plus et télécharger le formulaire de bourse).

Regardez un vidèo sur l’imagerie mentale et vous verrez le pouvoir que celle-ci génére sur les individus.

En cliquant ici regardez les 10 meilleurs moments et vidéos.

3. Nouvelle publicité “Ça Pourrait Être Toi”

Finalement, je voulais vous introduire à ma dernière publicité.

Pour toutes questions, suggestions et commentaires, je suis à votre disponsition.

Avec résilience,

Lior Doron

Coach en Psychologie du Sport

A L’aise en Sport – Pensées Intelligentes

514-963-FLOW (3569)

www.flowinsports.com

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